doesn’t want anything “serious” right now — but vowed that she’ll marry her next partner.
“I’m not kidding, though. I’m telling you right now … My next boyfriend is gonna be my next husband,” Cavallari, 37, declared during the Tuesday, November 5, episode of her “Let’s Be Honest” podcast. “I’m already putting that out there.”
She confessed, “I can’t keep dating. Like, I am dating, but, like, I can’t keep doing it.”
Cavallari noted that she has been on a few dates with someone who lives in her town of Leipers Fork, Tennessee, sharing that she met him out in the wild.
“I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker, but I am not looking to date anyone in entertainment,” the Laguna Beach alum continued. “I will never date anyone from the DMs ever again because it attracts the wrong type of guy.”
Cavallari was adamant that she’s “meeting a guy in real life” reiterating, “The next guy I’m serious about is going to be my next husband.”
The Uncommon James founder, who shares sons Camden, 12, and Jaxon, 10, and daughter Saylor, 8, with ex-husband , added that she’s done with dating apps as well.
Cavallari called her latest suitor Cody, sharing that his pros are that she “met him in real life” and “he’s not on social media.”
She explained that moving forward she wants “someone who I can really learn from” and someone who is “older” than her or the same age.
Cavallari announced in October that she and split after going public that February. When the couple made their Instagram debut, Cavallari got backlash for their 13-year age difference.
When she explained the reason why she broke up with the TikTok star, Cavallari revealed their age gap was a factor.
“I started to feel the age a little bit just with life experience. I look back when I was 24 and how much life has happened for me in between,” she told her listeners during her October 1 podcast episode. “Those are crucial years. Those are formative years. This is when you find yourself. He needs to be able to do that.”
Cavallari revealed on Tuesday that she is over being so public with her love life after being so open with her and Estes’ relationship.
“I’m never going to do a social media relationship again,” she told her best friend Justin Anderson on the podcast. “I will say, ‘I am in a relationship.’ I will never f—ing post him. I’m not going to make my relationship as accessible.”
Cavallari also noted that a “deal breaker” for her future boyfriend is someone insecure about her professional achievements.
“I just need someone who’s successful so that nothing in my life is a threat,” she said, adding that it’s “always been an issue” for her when dating.
The True Comfort author also revealed she wants “someone who’s had a vasectomy” because she doesn’t “want to worry about any of that s—.” She further insisted that she’s “not going to say, ‘I love you,’ for at least six months,” because that’s when she usually gets the ick in a relationship.
Despite mentioning one person she’s been seeing on the podcast, Cavallari said she is not settling down just yet.
“This is my single era. Like I said, my next boyfriend is my future husband,” she concluded. “I am like, ‘OK, well we need to have more fun.’”
