Providing ourselves to others entire can sometimes cost a high toll
In our live, we all need a wheelbarrow to move a huge pile of sand easily, because without the help everything will go slower. Get a helping hand or disclosed handed can sometimes be very helpful especially if there is not enough knowledge and it will encourage all to a faster process. Occasionally we are so impulsive to assist someone with help, that we ourselves completely forgotten by the enthusiasm and we also work or have important things to do, the clock is ticking and we are sometimes tied to deadlines or appointments. Sometimes to help others we walk ourselves over, it's good to help others, but we must also realize that we ourselves are also important and remember to show clear boundaries there. Someone who is strongly needy or in distress, then it is fine to give their spontaneous backing and thus help them out to achieve a state of emergency. Then we are glad that we helped someone who needed us at that time and hence has come out of the problems. At a time when we ourselves are in trouble, we hope someone to help us and perhaps to ask them, but with good friends its not necessary to ask they will see it. It may also be that if we helped someone at that time, they will express their overly nice and gratitude but later everything quickly returned to normal or forgotten. It is better not to annoy our own there and see it as a part of life, as the candle fire is on everyone can enjoy the light and romance. Some are not as intelligent and blow the candle out themselves, this causing a freedom to others and they can make a choice to let shine the light again or leave the other in the dark. For the most part we ourselves can determine our happiness and contentment when we think deeply about experienced confrontations and for what purpose and mood that arose. To help another is not bad but thinking primarily about the emotional feelings for ourselves is it wise the effort to overcome our feeling and satisfaction for give triumph to another. If we are willing to pay a high price does not matter to whom we providing our own, because in our heart, the sun will always shining and a victory celebration last forever with happiness.
All the best for You with a Good Health
author © Jan Jansen
