Thoughtless each other not understand can deliver disharmony
Miscommunication can creates dissension, it's to all concerned persons on that point of time for let it end on a sensible way.
By misguided proceedings of others we can get aghast and feel ourselves perplexed or grope us uncomfortable with this situation.
This circumstances has given us a blow to the credibility and certitudes level, by the unexpected manoeuvre from them.
The perplexity surprised us with what we experienced at that time, and maybe it does not have to be deliberately intended and it is not directly with full intentionally, nevertheless.
It has caused a stir in our feelings and direct in our thoughts where the aftertaste is not directly to process and it only emotions brings forth.
Maybe it's all a misunderstanding, and thereby we see it alike negative with increased blood pressure and are emotionally affected, so try to stay calm.
Temperamental we can go immediately on the attack, but that is not good for ourselves and the nerves it is better first to ask for a statement with explanation.
By incomprehension arose the most relationship problems and that is nowhere required as everything calmly can be explained why that's said or is done.
With questions and answers, we can create solutions, we not need to be shy or afraid if we want to dissolve a bad feeling.
We may can be reservedly and keep our mouth and bottle up in our mind, but that's unwise, because it has hurt our soul.
Similarly time take action passes at such a moment is a final decision on what happened and then both sides also know where they stand with each other.
Discuss together what has occurred that will eventually provide clarifications and explanations with evidence of what took place and which was the reason.
Regrettable is it as a good relationship is broken by misunderstanding with false notion and causing then a wrong idea in our thoughts called by negativity.
While this relationship does not deserve to be affected in this way and finish it or stay continue to think negatively about each other.
A notification about what happened will explain why all this was put into effect and by communicating with each other is it possible that everything will be normal or not.
But then know in any case, both sides for which this is so for cases with a clear reason, so that it can be resolved peacefully.
Or at negative reasons may be directly put a line through the relationship when we find that something has unfairly has gone to work.
Every loyal citizen knows that often the tongue speaks faster then heart feeling by the inspiration, but by an honest relationship can be finish with talking out any mutual problem with afterwards a smile.
Together strong, united unbeatable, therewith we are able to move mountains unanimous and will be resolved any disagreement with each other in a friendly way.
It will not create difficulties for us, but just give us the strength to make the relationship even stronger through the joint connecting with more confidence.
We all have a different way of thinking and that can sometimes giving cause friction by that we do not understand each other.
But when the heart is in the right place, there is always a possible reunification.
All the best for You with a Good Health
author © Jan Jansen
